When I was a student, there were several people in my class who took pleasure in hurting others.
Those people choose people who are pure and mature as their targets.
Is it the same feeling that trampling through pure white snow is more fun than dirty snow?
As I got used to it, I started not caring what the other person did.
“If you can do it, do it! I won’t give in to anything like that.”
By the time I started thinking that way, my student days were over.
I can’t count the number of times I’ve been slighted, but there have also been many instances of bullying that I couldn’t avoid and ended up being ignored or left out.
I went to elementary school, middle school, high school, and university about four times in total.
When I was in elementary school, my close friends excluded me only when deciding on a group.
Later, another friend told me that it was because the girl she liked liked me, and it was out of jealousy.
However, I didn’t really talk to that boy much after the middle of the story because he made fun of me and made fun of him.
It was probably that friend who wrote Aigagasa.
Most of the time, it was out of spite or jealousy from someone who was dissatisfied.
I once felt the fear that if I warned someone out of a sense of justice, they would turn against me.
When I was in elementary school, I once admonished a girl in another class for spreading rumors about me.
As fate would have it, I met that child again in high school.
I had completely forgotten, but after I was asked which elementary school I attended, I remembered it.
Ah, that nasty girl.
Then, my friends informed me that rumors were spreading throughout the school about my bad personality.
After that, there was a class change and I was ignored by almost everyone in the group who believed the rumors.
However, since I had never seen him before, I maintained a firm attitude and got along normally with the other kids.
About six months later, the ringleader of the group I had ignored apologized to me, saying he had ignored me because he had a bad relationship with his parents.
Even if the other person had malicious intent, I thought that if they harbored hostility, it would only be a loss for me.
The same is true even when you become a member of society. Even if you have a boss or a business partner you don’t like at work, don’t be hostile towards them.
Because what you put out is a boomerang that will always come back to you.
Sometimes this can push you into a corner where it becomes difficult to survive.
This is a trap that people with a strong sense of justice tend to fall into.
Starseeds have very different soul characteristics.
Since they make up only a few percent of the population, it may be inevitable that they are forced to live a harsh life.
In the first place, humans have an instinct to eliminate things that have different characteristics.
It may be an instinct for survival, but people with too strong egos attack and hurt others.
What is needed to control the ego is love, strong will, and knowledge of human nature.
It’s true that it’s better to cooperate with others to provide food, clothing, and shelter, so living in a group is essential.
When working in a group, if there are people with different personalities, opinions will be divided and things will fall apart.
Therefore, it is more efficient to form groups with similar people.
For these reasons, it is natural to try to exclude or attack people with different characteristics.
And the average person is least likely to be excluded.
Usually there is a leader in the group, so if that boss notices it, it’s over.
Targets are people who stand out in both good and bad ways.
This applies to people whose abilities are too high or too low, too strong or too weak.
It often targets weak people who can be exploited.
If there is a hierarchical relationship, either one becomes a target of attack.
For example, if you have a low position or low power relationship at work, you will become a target of attack even if you have high abilities and spirituality.
Even if that person is highly spiritual and makes those around them happy, they should be excluded because their ego makes a big difference.
This is probably the reason why bullying occurs.
In group life, it doesn’t matter whether something is right or wrong.
Most of the time, the majority is right, not the minority.
Therefore, although it has spread as common sense in the world and is believed by many people, there are many wrong ideas and ways of thinking that prevent people from becoming happy.
We have been reincarnated to correct this distorted world.
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